Which is worse: getting out played or taking a week to realize you’ve been out played?  I know you can argue this, but no matter who you are, someone out there is smarter than you.  Someone has more money, less money, is better looking, is happier, is more sad, blah, blah, blah.  We all get out played at some point in our lives.  We hope those times are when it does not matter.  In this case, it does not really matter to me.  I could have taken the upper hand if I would have played it better, but I was trying to be nice.  See what being nice does?  In the grand scheme of things, it will not matter.  In the very near future, it will eat at me.  Damn my need for control where it does not exist!